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Steven J. Newton
 Feb 8, 08 - 4:01 PM |
PTSD
My friends Welcome to the SSFOA forum on PTSD. We hope that you find this a safe place to discuss what ever problems you may have and find that you are not alone. Remember the SSFOA Hear4You program is available for those of you that want to talk with someone. May God bless you all and give you the peace you deserve. |
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Pappy
Feb 8th, 2008 - 4:42 PM |
Re: PTSD
For those of you who know me, you know I don't take much crap, especially from the brass and I talk straight cause that's all I know how to do. War and even serving can cause us all problems. Let me say this right off: PTSD ain't no personality disorder and it don't mean your weak. IT IS A WOUND OF THE MIND. It affects you and family and friends around you. Got it? This here forum is a good idea and I thank the Silver Stars for their help. I hope that all of you, families included use this space to talk and find out your not alone. And if your all good little boys and girls I will tell you Pappy's story one PTSD on day. God bless ya all. Pappy |
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Karen
Feb 15th, 2008 - 7:20 AM |
Re: Re: PTSD
Well Pappy we look forward to hearing your story one day. I want to thank you for all the times you have helped me with my own son. You are so right that it affects ALL around, not just the soldier. The pain that as I mother I feel is why can I not help my son? Why can't I take this all away? I fear leaving him alone, I fear when he drives off in his truck, I fear him being in crowds. I can't relax when we go anywhere because I am always watching him and his facial expresions to see if they are changing so I can get close to him and hold him. Its a war that we are all fighting here at home now. Do I resent that he went to war? NO He did what HE wanted to do for his country. I am so proud of him and all the other young men and women who have fought so proudly, but now its time for US to fight. They came home, now we need to fight the war here for them. Thank you Pappy and your friend Steve for bringing you into my life and careing about ALL of our kids. Together, we will ALL win this WAR. |
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Padre
Feb 15th, 2008 - 7:50 AM |
Re: PTSD
Thank you for writing. PTSD is so very real and we recognize it for what it is--a destructive unrelenting, unexplainable, unwanted, and at times unexpected pain that hurts the entire family. Be encouraged and know that many are going thur the same, this does not make it easier, but at least lets you know you are not alone. The Silver Star Families will make every effort to be here for you when you need support. And most of all, remember that God can help you and He is here for you too, I will be happy to pray for you if you would like to email me. Respectfully, Padre |
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DJ
Mar 6th, 2008 - 6:18 PM |
Re: PTSD
Hello Steve and everyone of the Silver Star Family, I have suffered with PTSD and more for 40 plus years. Finally the VA has recognized this as a real issue. And as I just learned you guys are out there and truly care. Please help all of the younger vets out there and tell them they are not alone. God Bless you and them, ...dj |
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Pappy
Mar 7th, 2008 - 9:50 AM |
Re: PTSD
DJ my brother Thank you for your kind words. I understand. To this day I will not sit anywhere unless my back is to a wall. You have my thoughts and prayers and we will do our best to help our new veterans with whatever issues they may have. And DJ? Your not alone either my friend. Together we will do our best to help others. |
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frank morelli
Jun 24th, 2008 - 5:20 AM |
Re: PTSD
I was a NAVY FMF CORPSMAN IN THE VIETNAM WAR .IN 2006 I Went to a county service officer to seek info on veterans benefits .This officer upon opening my dd214 and looking at me diagnosed me with ptsd .He advised to enroll for help at the local clinic .I was immediately diagnosed with ptsd and tinnutis from the ringing in my ears .Placed in group therapy I walked out as it was unbearable .The clinician offered me another group of which I joined .unfortunately this group had been thru their initial anxieties and i was never given the chance .The C & P examiner said Specifically since I had a severe heart condition Group was not for me and would advise the clinic .My primary called me at home and said I should attend group .Not knowing what to do I continued in this group and never had a chance to speak of my Nam or life difficulties .this group had been together for years .So I took the role of corpsman tried to help them .After a year the facilitator began a corpsman and medic group .Which I have attended bi/weekly .This group I can relate to and kno I am not alone .Problem is I continue to attend to the other group but advised thru my drs to leave but I have to do it on my own .They do not understand as we have been together so long it is the only bond most of them have .The clinic tried to break up the group and they even solicted the help of a a congress rep to get them back together . I am dismayed at the total treatment and care and as the c&p examiner said they will pull me down .I must get out of this group but for some reason hold on ,=.my wife has now given me the ultimatem if I don,t quit and seek outside pro help we will have a problem .The clinic has not been helpful and only worsen my stress .I surely need help and don't know where to turn this has been going on to long .I don't want to walk but that maybe the answer to put it back in the box and bring it to my grave one way or the other .any advice would be grateful thanks Frank |
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coco
Jun 27th, 2008 - 6:43 PM |
Re: PTSD
Frank, my son who suffers with PTSD, says he needs to be comfortable with what he is doing. He also fears change. If you have been with this group for a period of time you are comfortable. You also have a leadership role to help them through things, but possibly have not received what you need help with yourself. Is there a Vet Center nearby? I ask because I have been told many groups that have either disbanded or members just want time together besides group go to their local Vet Center and play pool or watch movies. This way you could still meet with them, but also receive the sessions you need to help yourself. Please don't give up. Prayers that you receive the help you need and keep continued friendships with the group members. coco |
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